“Character is the ability to carry out a good resolution long after the excitement of the moment has passed.” – Cavett Robert Read
December 29, 2015, Charlotte, NC… For the next twelve months I will not buy another shirt, belt, jacket, t-shirt, pair of shoes, pants – or anything else to wear. I don’t need anymore stuff this year!
I already had enough stuff, so I put my retail therapy on hold for a year. I wanted more time for intentional choices.
“How’d that work for you, Bruce? A full year – nothing!?!” my friends ask.
It was great – actually easier than I thought it would be. I didn’t buy a single piece of clothing all year!
I learned not only did I already have enough, I had too much. When it got down to what I actually needed to make it through a week or month, even go on a trip, I realized my closet already held everything I needed.
Besides, I wasn’t sure people noticed what I wore anyway. If I’m clean, don’t smell bad, and blend in – great. There are other, more important, ways to be noticed. Other things matter more than retail therapy solutions – things like kindness, the environment, fair rules, and wages that reflect contribution.
I’ll make a new resolution for 2017, but I want to keep the spirit of my ’16, “No New Stuff.”
I vow to only buy when necessary, focusing on keeping what I have in good repair, and then replacing things when it’s time. If something can be donated or recycled, then it will find a new home or a new purpose.
When replacement time comes, I’ll turn to companies with mission statements like Patagonia’s and Bombas. They are companies who have found ways to add value to their offerings by focusing on things needed in our world today, things other than just bigger profits from selling more stuff. For me, these two companies stand out – their values match the ones I’m looking for in my life.
How did you do on your 2016 resolutions, what did you learn?
Did you stick with them, change and adjust along the way, or give up? Was there learning in your choices you can share?
Tell me about companies you know with a mission like Patagonia and Bombas, companies who care about their people and our planet, as much as their pocket book.
Here is my resolution from December 29, 2015 if you’d like to look back.
As always, the conversation starts here.
“In the ordinary choices of every day we begin to change the direction of our lives.” – Eknath Easwaran
Epilogue
Rapper J.Cole believes that happiness and satisfaction can never be attained by pursuing things such as materialism. He thinks that we should place our importance on spiritual elements or elements which contain real substance.
What do you think?
Wow!! You actually followed through with your resolution. Incredible strengths. I’v never followed through. Well, I’ve partially followed through pn last years; actually started mine in February.
Enjoy 2017. Kittlervand I are looking at Cuba options and will keep you informed.
Elizabeth
Elizabeth –
Thank you, yes, I made it through 2016 with no new stuff. It feels good.
It sounds like you are on course to complete your resolution, you just started in February so you need to keep at it a bit longer.
A trip to Cuba is exciting. Keep me posted.
Happy New Year.
– Bruce
Hi, Bruce — Here at the International Rescue Committee, we shared with employees a holiday gift guide listing a few of our partners: UnCommonGoods is an online marketplace offering sustainable, creatively designed, and high-quality merchandise at affordable prices. Cotopaxi creates innovative outdoor products and experiences that fund sustainable poverty alleviation, move people to do good, and inspire adventure. Chavez for Charity is a fashion accessory brand best known for its fun and colorful beaded jewelry. A series of “Counting Beads” bracelets/necklaces were designed in collaboration with the IRC, and are inspired by the counting beads used by IRC-trained health workers… Read more »
Lynsley –
That’s a great list of companies doing more than just filling up our world with more “stuff” so the company owners can fill their pocket books. They are doing good in our world.
Thanks for joining the conversation and for all you and your co-workers do at the International Rescue Committee.
Happy New Year!
– Bruce
Bruce Congrats on a successful 2016 resolution. As you state retail shopping has become an American pastime and not a very healthy one for the individual’s soul, health, or financial well being. Just as we overeat, we overbuy. Since I became very active with Assistance League of Charlotte I have tried to focus more on need. What I no longer need that is in a good state I donate to the Assistance League Thrift Shop where I know my donation has multi-fold benefits. Someone new gets to enjoy a gently used item at a low price, the item stays out… Read more »
Pat –
Thank you for joining the conversation and for all the good work you and your team do in our community at the Assistance League of Charlotte.
– Bruce